O-T-H-E-R-S
“All that is not given is lost” – Hasari Pal
There is a famous story about William Booth, the founder of The Salvation Army. It goes…….One Christmas many years ago, Mr. Booth wanted to send encouragement to all the salvationists serving tirelessly around the world. This was in a time that communication was by telegraph and you paid per word. Money was tight that year and The Salvation Army was especially short. After many discarded ideas for the message that would best portray the essence of his mission and the crux of his heart….William Booth decided on one powerful word.
O-T-H-E-R-S.
There was an experiment performed in the area of quantum physics by researcher Paul Persall. This study showed the physiological effects of giving on the human brain. Through censorship of brain activity it was proven that when a person extends kindness to another, it naturally increases the production of endorphins in the “givers” brain. Furthermore, it was proven, that it also increases the endorphins in the brain of the “receiver.” Most surprisingly however, was that one act of generosity would even extend to a third party “observer” as well. This study is scientific proof that our human brains are wired for kindness and giving. We were created to give as we have been given.
Since childhood, my Father instilled in me lessons for surviving the “real world.” I grew up with phrases such as; “money doesn’t grow on trees,” “nothing in this world comes for free” and “you get what you work for”. My father thought it would be a valuable lesson to pay for my own college education, so I began working at age 8 delivering newspapers. Many times in college, I juggled two jobs, and a full schedule. I went days without sleeping to achieve my goals. One day after graduation, a distant uncle invited me to lunch. He asked about my student loans. I quickly attempted to change the subject, ashamed at how in debt I was. He pulled out his checkbook and said, “all you have to do is give me a number.” He wrote me a check for the full amount of my student loans that afternoon. I cannot describe to you the impact this single act had on my life, not just financially, but completely. He never asked me to pay him back, or mentioned it again. In fact, he never mentioned it to the rest of the family.
My father loves me and taught me the tools he had learned to survive in “the real world.” However, the lesson that changed my existence was the lesson of generosity and plenty, “you can get something for nothing.” I will repay my debt by extending this lesson to as many as I can.
A gift is never “deserved”, that is the definition of a gift. Sometimes just one person believing in you can change your world. The beauty in the gift of giving is that it works like a ripple……it doesn’t stop, it is continuous. Love is an action and it is worth believing in.















